Monday, April 2, 2012

Chef the Mime (DaLocalWife)

Although married for less than 2 years, I actually fell in love with the chef well over 20 years ago.  Before he was a tax-paying adult.  A father.  A chef.

In my OAC English class, I noticed a boy who was argumentative but somehow came across as almost shy.  Exactly the kind of dichotomy that would get my attention. He did his Hamlet soliloquy and  I was hooked.  We dated for two weeks at the end of the summer leading into university.  He was so intense, he scared me and I let him go off to Ottawa without so much as a "see you soon".  My biggest regret in life, by far.

Fast forward 17 years and through the wonder of Facebook, we got a second chance.
Why am I digging all of this up?

Due to health problems, I wasn't able to accompany the chef to a gala at the ROM. With a circus theme.  How much fun THAT would be?
He went with a long-time friend who is a wonderful photographer and her efforts more than matched his in both costume and flair.  She took a picture of the chef at the gala which made me fall in love with him just that little bit more.  Hard to do when you are as head-over-heels as I am.

 No one gets to see this playful, theatrical side of DaLocalChef anymore.  But I do, every day.

And I count my lucky stars.




picture taken by the incomparable Michelle Kauntz